I’m talking about planned pregnancy and knowing that money will be very tight if you do get pg w/another child and that none of the children you have will be able to have the things they could have had w/fewer siblings. If I can comfortably pay for a quality education for my existing child(ren), but know that if I add another sibling it will make money tight enough for no extras for anyone and hand me downs only for the little one. Is it wrong/irresponsible to have another child just because the parents want to? Would you do it?
I think that if you can afford all the basics for another child without depending on others, it is not irresponsible to plan more kids. By basics I mean food, clothing, shelter, and healthcare. Education could be added as well because even with free public school there are still expenses that come up.
I wouldn’t do it because I want more than the basics for my kids. I’d like to provide them with experiences and, yes, things I never had growing up. That’s a big part of why I’m done at two kids.
ETA I don’t consider having to use hand me downs as a bad thing and I don’t think because someone uses hand me downs or thrift store clothing they were irresponsible to have more kids. Hell, I can afford name brand clothes for my kids but still shop at thrift stores.
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If you can hardly afford to feed your children by having more, then yes, I think it is a bit selfish to keep having them just because you want them. They aren’t shiny new toys that you can just get whenever you feel bored. It’s your responsibility to take care of that kid,
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If we go by the criteria that it’s irresponsible to have children you can’t afford, then most of us wouldn’t be here. most of human history and still in most of the world, people have kids they can’t afford,
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So, no, I don’t think it’s wrong or irresponsible to have children you can’t afford. it a choice I’d personally make? that’s because of my personal preferences about how I’d like to raise my children, not because of some moral superiority I have over people who do have kids they can’t afford.
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Anyway, I will have as many children as I want to have. We will make it work. I think only children are spoiled beyond belief. I think a few siblings and some hard times makes better people:)
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