You want to meet the right person, but you too scared to do anything about it.
Introductions out one hand and looking another person in the eye be terrifying for the shy woman. The brain locks up as you scramble to think of something relevant to say. You fall apart as soon as you asked what you do for a living. You stammer. The heat rises in your face and under your arms. You suddenly incapable of forming a grammatical sentence. You think to yourself, would anyone care about me? I really not that interesting!
Fear not. Many shy people have succeeded in meeting new people and forming lasting,
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6. Breathe. Whenever you feel your heart racing, breathe deeply and slowly. If you really start to feel uncomfortable (your face has become so hot you could use it for a wok), excuse yourself and go to the restroom.
7. Compliment the other person. Sincerity is key,
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Be warned: These tips will not help you if you don leave the house. It just too easy to watch the Friends finale for the umpteenth time instead of meeting people,
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Talking to strangers can be uncomfortable, but with practice it will surely get easier. If you have a bad night, congratulate yourself for making the effort. When you have a good night, understand that you earned it. Know that countless wonderful nights are on their way to you.
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